A Tribute to MY FATHER'S STRUGGLE FOR LIFE #13

A Tribute to MY FATHER'S STRUGGLE FOR LIFE #12

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Thanks again to all my readers. With full of support from your side I am able to come on this point. It is thing of pride for me to tell  that our blog is being read throughout most of the country in the world. This thing really inspired and forced me to find out a separate stage to put my emotions . This thing lead me to construct website www.harishgore.com

Since,we are in such world where we are connected to each other by the way of strong connectivity of internet. So we can exchange ideas of each other. Such one thing I am exchanging with you all now this day that is my father's biography. Well we are in the final stage of this work and soon it will available to readers. The name of the biography is A Tribute to MY FATHER'S STRUGGLE FOR LIFE. So onwards now blog will be called by this name.

I have designed website in such way that readers will find no extra effort to available a book. You will have some ideas about the book by visiting my site. Also I will share all thing concerned about the book on this site. 

There left many things to say since I am writing. I will share these all things on my blog in future. Now there remained a while to read the book. Till then thank. Take care.

MY FATHER'S STRUGGLE FOR CANCER AND MEAL #11

                     

           Mahatma Gandhi is one legend amongst the freedom fighter. Gandhiji was known for his thoughts which he followed throughout his life. He was firm with his beliefs and thinking’s. He was one among prominent leader to fight against British rule. The way he put his thoughts to Indian people was impressive. I often think over it. The thing was amazing for me. At the time, India was in strong need of freedom and all citizens were not participating in struggle. Gandhiji was first leader in India whose call for freedom was listened by all age of community. The people not only listened the call but also participated against British rule. It was month of August when Gandhiji called for ‘Bharat Chodo.’ The children, the young and the old participated and acted accordingly with Gandhiji. When such a situation accrued in which whole Indian community involved against British, they forced to think over power and strength of Gandhiji. The way of nonviolence is quite difficult but results in definite output. That was first time British ruler has to agree that they should leave country and India should be free. It was result of nonviolence.
                 People always love peace. In history when we see that whenever there were any revolution, the quantity of people participated in that revolution is more in the nonviolence way. Actually human community love peace and nonviolence. Gandhiji believes strongly on such principles and forced to act others to behave likewise. These are noble thoughts and keeps tremendous power of changes.
                  Many such noble qualities were there to observe. Simplicity was one of them. Gandhiji’s living was simple. Though he lived simple living, his thoughts were not simple. The way of his thinking made him to come to common man’s life. At beginning and at his early age of life, he lived very rich life. But gradually, he noticed that simplicity was noble way. He came to know the need of simplicity. It cost him nothing. On the other hand luxurious life cost him too much. It was like battle of thoughts in his mind which was own by simplicity. Simplicity was the way why ordinary person connected with Gandhiji. Thus he came closer to Indian society. The name and fame itself came to him.
                   ‘Brahmacharya’ was one of noble principle which mostly impressed to me in my life. Gandhiji think over many subject and rightly choose the way of life. It was an incident when he started to think over Brahmacharya. When his father breath last, he was with his wife Kasturba. His uncle was accompanying his father and it was thing of ashamed for him. The incident was heavily affected his life and he started to find out the solution over it. He thought and discussed his views with many people. The great thing had to come out in the form of Brahmacharya. Soon after few days, he started to follow Brahmacharya till his last breath.
                     Life of Gandhiji was full of noble values. ‘Truth’ was measure among such noble principles that he loved much. Lord Gautama left luxurious life to find out the truth. Finding ‘Truth’ is difficult for anybody. Walking over the path of truth is like walking over thorny path. A person over the ways of truth is judged by many angles and he may lost many precious things over such path. Renunciation is needed to follow the truth. Gandhiji rightly said that ‘Renunciation without aversion is not lasting’. The way of truth always accompanied by simplicity, nonviolence, peace and hard working. The firm beliefs over the truth finally results in finding the same. Lord Gautama found the truth at the pick point when he was advised to leave his efforts. The way to find the truth is such hard that you have to go through hard and painful way.
                    Today’s Indian community is quite different from that of 1950’s. But still we love peace, nonviolence and simplicity. It is still hard to follow simplicity but commonly we Indians live simple life. We still love nonviolence in its all forms. We love each other and truth is one of noble principle for us. Though we may not busy in finding truth, we love it. We love to love. We also love peace and many such noble qualities which are biggest assets of our culture. We still love the thoughts and thinking’s of M. K. Gandhi. Gandhiji’s thoughts are gift to whole world. They origins in our culture to spread to world.
                We as human are always in need of Gandhiji’s thoughts. Peace really rules over us. Peace is the only thing that most of the people love it. Violence is not answer to the problems. Violence is like coward. It is symbol of ill-thoughts. Instability comes with violence. Stability rules with nonviolence. Peaceful life last for many years. In getting things abruptly, we comes to the point, where there instability in our life. When we reduces our daily requirements, we are always to find us near the stability. Today is day to remember the noble thoughts of M. K. Gandhi. The ideology of stability in the form of peace.

MY FATHER'S STRUGGLE FOR CANCER AND MEAL #10

                                                 

Today is Guru Paurnima.This day we pay respect to our teachers'. The Guru i.e. teacher is among one who teach us to fill-up by knowledge. And with this knowledge we spend our lives. It is a day to remember our teacher again. In India this is like spirit, an energetic day to pay gratitude for our Guru. In Mahabharata Lord Krishna was the Guru of Arjuna.In modern India Paramahansa was the Guru of Swami Vivekanand. If we read the history of India,we find that each great person has come with one to whom he believed as his Guru. In the spiritual region we find one interesting story. Sant  Namadeo had no Guru in his early stage. He could able to talk directly to Lord Vittal. He believed that he was able to talk to Lord Vittal,then it is not needful for him to accept anyone as Guru. He failed to achieve what others could get easily with their Guru. Finally he accepted the necessity of Guru and then found the knowledge i.e.God. It is still today right thing that knowledge is impossible without Guru. Many accepted one Guru and many accepted more than one Guru. Many of us learn a lesson from each and every particle of this universe. They get knowledge from it and so they accept it as Guru. We in Hindu religion accept Guru as Parabramha i.e. caretaker of all-THE GOD.
           In every field Guru is required to obtain the knowledge. Guru is above God. Frist Guru and then God. So without Guru there will be no more knowledge. We can understand the importance of Guru by above lines. 
         When Guru is such a person who is above God then naturally question arise that without Guru,is there an absence of knowledge ? I think, to some extent there may be knowledge but it will fail to discover the final truth. 
        Guru is the person who sprinkles his thoughts to his students. Some collect few,some more than few and some out of all. One day, with hard way of practice,his student becomes Guru. This is what our tradition says to us.
          I respectfully bow to all my gurus' who teach me a lesson with the purpose or without purpose,with harm or without harm, with the intention or without intention. I with my heart pay respect to each of you and to guru inside you.

MY FATHER'S STRUGGLE FOR CANCER AND MEAL # 9

      Greeting of this auspicious day Gudhi Padhava. It's beginning of Hindu New Year. So I wish a very happy new year on this day. A new year starts with new volition  and we work for those volition  whole year. It's also beginning of new generous thought in the mind. There is joy all over the country. Today a great enthusiasm can be seen everywhere. It's  also day of victory over evil. Hindu traditional festival starts from today. I wish my hearty feeling for all.
             This year mean a lot for me. I had a long journey with my father. On 9th March 2014,my father took last breath. It was like a addiction of my father for last many years. When he passed away,there was certain type of hollow and I was quite disturbed after his death. I had served best to my father. Still there remained a hollow. Why was it for ? I had served my father with loving heart and my mind never admitted his absence. His absence in my mind was a real hollow.
      The hollow in my mind can be completed only by the way of writing some of the memories of my father. So I started to write about him. To some extent now my father will always remains with me.
      Friends,it is my pleasure today to announce on this auspicious day that my writing is just completed. Alone a love towards my father was one and only reason to complete the 'writing journey' of my father. It was new and fresh experience for me. I had never tried anything on paper. So it went much period to complete the book.
      The sudden quit of my father bother my life and finally I was successful in keeping some memories of my father with me. I had always a sympathy for my father. His entire life was a tragedy. Though he was unlucky in his life, he always walked on a path which finally ends in truth,simplicity and devotion. So such a precious life should be unfold to rest of the world.
       Besides journey with my father against cancer, writing memories of my father was a wonderful experience for me. It was completely possible to heal my mind by writing about my father. Now he will be always  available for me. The words will definitely calm down the storms of thoughts within me.
          I consider,my writing will helpful for world by many ways. Besides cancer of my father, many things are narrated in the book to enhance the glory of the book. My writing will shape into the book in coming months. I personally eager to meet the author within me. Thanks.

MY FATHER'S STRUGGLE FOR CANCER AND MEAL #8

Hi friends,

               It's great day again to meet you. A rotation of life causes us to act accordingly and we do act by the circumstances around us. Some decisions of us are correct and some are wrong. The correct decision encourages us while incorrect decisions demoralize us . When such situation arrives to us, we do force to think upon our decision. Still life is going on and on with positive and negative decision. One thing I want to mention that whether decision is wrong or right, it should be taken. Once you took a certain decision,we should stick up with decision and should not worry about it's result. The decision power always improve with the experience and experience increases always with the decision. So to take a decision is first most needed thing in a life.

                 One decision I had taken long ago,without caring about the result of it. The decision was about my father. I had started with very few things with me at that time. It was indeed vital decision which  would rather affect directly to the life of my father. I was unknown to the result of decision.  Fortunately I was right and upcoming time proven my decision. If I was wrong at that time,perhaps I have to pay more for it.

           The whole experiences of my father's journey of struggle with his disease along with his life struggle is on the way to the paper. The writing is now in final stage and soon a rough print of it will come out. Like my father's cancer, writing about my father is giving me great pleasure. It contains mind satisfaction and inner peace. Life of my father was simple but full of morality,truth and tremendous affection towards the life. So I consider that it should be on the paper. We are going to publish it internationally. So that rest of the people should come to know about struggle of my father.

               Though the writing is not yet completed,it is on the way to finish soon. The whole struggle of my father is mainly focused in my writing. Also along with my father,my personal views and thoughts are the attraction of the book. My father made available to watch me to some social issues. The book contains serious thoughts over these issues. You may catch much more along with said things. The book will definitely force to think upon the issues which I am going to put in it. The culture of India from book will help to improve to some extent and also it will promote Indian Culture. I have a confidence about the book that intellectuals across the world will appreciate my writings. Hope every thing will be fine up to publication of book.

Thanks.

MY FATHER'S STRUGGLE FOR CANCER AND MEAL #7

Hi friends,
Its too long to meet you. Actually I am busy in writing a book which will be publish in coming year or two. My experience while treating my father is main subject of my writing. I had came across lot of experience which enhanced my life really. The experience is real advisor in your life. No teacher can teach you better than experience. My father was suffering from Cancer for around sixteen years. There was nothing with us while I started to service of my father. The people who are with us started to go away from us. It was very tough time indeed in my life. There was life of my father which is going to vanish in Short period. There was much need of help to me and my family. I was expecting like that. But I was wrong. Some period prove me that my expectations were wrong. When there is need of you to someone,why we behave oddly ? Exactly thing was happened with me. My life was thoroughly ripe with the experiences and a milestone journey with my father was made in my life. There was much pains ,lot of difficulties and many hurdles while treating my father. The sixteen years is much period and I struggled that much of the period with Cancer. The Cancer was not my fear. The main fear was of breeding. My family was suffered through such a things that I have to write. Beside the dangerous disease , I have to fight that all thing which I considered to note down. We as person needs to obey some social things for others. These things are few but plays vital role as human aspects. The society is created by such small things and human being is known different from animal by these things. Animals and humans are separated by that small line. I had observed such things which are like animal behaviour while caring my father. Beside disease cancer , I had to go through all that things which hurt me much. I never opposed such things while they were happening but I kept records of such things. Much of pains was to me at that time. Pains in life really are wonderful and experience gaining. Also pains stay not for lifetime. They are for period of short times in your life and they always go away of you in time of course but while pains are away from you...you are rich in experiences. Such experiences are real teacher of you. Emotions are like clouds. They appears in mind and eagerly vanishes away. When I think about past , I have no complaints about anyone nor I have hate of anybody in my mind. I just want to discuss some points of breeding with whole world. I may be wrong but my emotions never be. They are my real treasury. They are my wealth. I kept emotions alive of my father for about sixteen years and kept him alive with the emotions. So they are more important for me in my life.
My writing is ongoing with such emotions. I feel that you all are with me to support me in my upcoming experiences of my father and me in form of book. I hope to publish it in a year or two. It is on the right way and I am sure about it. I will be here always with my thoughts to serve you. Thanks.