MY FATHER'S STRUGGLE FOR CANCER AND MEAL #6

       The hurdles in a life has unique value. A plane life without any hurdle causes too many losses. It is always said that a person can not make any progress in his life if he not faces problems. Mistakes during work will teach to person and he is able to think upon his mistakes next time. Hurdles always comes with a chance. This chance is for progress. Hazards leads a person to learn something and it is good to develope ourselves. Life of Swami Vivekananda is full of such hazards. When he was in a such a situation that he may enjoy luxuries  in household life which was full of enjoyments with family or he may accept himself as monk in which there were many hurdles. He obviously chosen the life as monk. He had nothing with him when he accepted himself as monk. The only thing he has was the thoughts which were given to him by Paramhansa. Instead of accepting luxury of life , he accepted himself  as monk. A thoughts which were eternal and which will motivate all world,were accepted by him. The money or luxury was not question. It has some mere value but thoughts definitely  had some prominent value as a monk he travelled throughout India. He came across whole India where he observed that poverty in India was main question. He was in continuously in thinking and decided to go for religious parliament to west. After that he was able to spread the thoughts of Ramkrishna Paramhansa strongly all over the world.
                 The questions now remains that person may have all luxury in his life or may accept some good quality of thoughts. Luxury doesn't allow to bear good thoughts but good thought may lead person into Luxury .He has to bear many hazards in obeying good thoughts .They are thoughts which defines the quality of person .A person having certain good thoughts may suffers always many hurdles in his life but definitely he overcomes from it with the help of his thoughts.
                  Beside hazards person has to obey his good thinking. There comes intimately hopes from good thoughts. A positivity is created through thinking of good quality thoughts and it leads into good results. A person many test in hazard but good quality thinking saves him from moral damage. Loss of money is nothing in front of loss of morals. A victory with good moral is always sign of good thinking. The greedy thoughts always leads to self progress but universal thoughts leads to progress of whole society. Such thoughts are more valuable which causes the upliftment of some sections of society. Such section is eagerly waiting for good thoughts and they are really thankful for those who causes their upliftment. A progress is made through high thinking and so it  has definitely most important value in the life.
                 

MY FATHER'S STRUGGLE FOR CANCER AND MEAL #5

        My father had been suffered thruogh cancer.He had tough life throughout his whole period of life.At childhood he struggled for his bread,in young period his struggle was for his own identity and in his old age he fight against cancer.His entire life thus spent with fighting with self and with society.The fight with cancer was too long.It was about sixteen years and this period I consider was my real period of life as I started very seriously thinking about life.My journey with my father was enough for  me to write.In this journey many hurdles was there.I had gained some extra life for my father as it was most needed for him.In giving hands with cancer of my father I feel proud that my father was completely satisfied with me.

         I am a teacher.It is my moral duty to save my father.Beside this I had experianced too many things to share with whole world.I will share all that experiance with you in comming days as I had started to write about it.In living and dying game my experiances were more light up for me.As you all know that cancer without any allopathy would not curable.Though it is true,I had fight without that.I will explain the fight against it to all.Thanks

MY FATHER'S STRUGGLE FOR CANCER AND MEAL #4

The story of success begin with the effort in a right direction and right action in that concern. Many time we start with great enthusiasm but it can not last for too much time and we  reaches at other end where we never want to go. The building of success is built itself on firm concept and beliefs. Our determination and follow up in that concern is most effective. We can judge success or failure anywhere during our work. We are quite confidant about it. The story of success is thing to feel it while failure has many angles. We analyse our defeat. Finds the reasons to hide behind it  but it is not right. Criticising on anybody can show true nature of defeated person. Success is only success and failure is failure.
      The struggle which ends in success is unique one. It has different taste and mind satisfaction. The hurdles during fight feels nothing at the end of story. My  father's struggle for cancer was one of biggest fight against a monster disease called cancer. Every diseased cancer person has to finish from life. My father also finished but the struggle left behind to write. The disease was unwanted in his life but it came. We together made hands with it and we are successful in getting much more period of over sixteen years. Personally I was satisfied with this period and my father also. It was indeed grand success for us  I till having taste of that success. The entire story of fight against cancer was unique and it has some moral touch of simplicity as well as devotions along with truth and unselfishness. Because of this universal quality within my father made story unique.

MY FATHER'S STRUGGLE FOR CANCER AND MEAL #3

Living with certain thoughts that are bound the person to live in his life are most important. The thoughts of the person really define him in his life. There are so many personalities who are known to us only by their thoughts. Why they keep consistency in their thought? Thoughts are like taste of some product. If there is no consistency in taste of that product , we never buy that product. It is responsibility of that company to work accordingly. If not there is fear of locking the company. The same thing is apply about the thoughts. The thoughts, specially, good thoughts are idols of society and people are loved to follow on such thoughts. Killing such thoughts by good people is same like killing path of good things. A whole life obeying is big task for human being. There is basic difference between good and bad thinking. Thinking nothing is bad thinking and thinking wisely is good thinking. Path of truth is quite hard but it gives sweet fruit at its end. We are fulfilled by this path. To live a life beside good thinking another much things are needed by us. These things determines our living and quality of our living.

My father had lived such a life that he can not make much progress in his life but what he get from his life was a thought that driven his whole life. This thought was so simple but with that thought his whole life became easy for him. There are many parts of life,many topic of life,many colours of life and many thinking of life. One thinking that ends till end is a rare case. My father had lived such wonderful life which inspired me really.  

MY FATHER'S STRUGGLE FOR CANCER AND MEAL #2

People who are living with their principals are rare. Most of us are changing their thoughts as time changes. What they had learned previously was thus comes to an end and thoughts regarding living principal comes to an end. Our thoughts really determines our strength. What we gets from our thoughts? One simple thing which anybody can not gets anywhere, is self confidence which is most needed to everyone while working. Without that confidence we can not get success in life. A self defined confidence obtained from self made thoughts are more valuable than it obtained from other sources. So finally thoughts and thinking of self is important to everybody. The thinking about principals, they comes from a discipline behaviour. A constant thinking and acting in accordance with it is most needed. Then and then only great works be comes to an end in life.

          Telling story about my father is great pleasure for me. I have live with him for too long period. His principals of life was just beyond my imaginations and thinking. Often I was wrong to understand him. He and his principals were so simple that I never think on that level. This is main reason why it takes me too long period to understand him. Way of truth is also simple. It is so simple that many can not prepare their mind for it. Though it is simple,walking on it is quite difficult for many of us. The person who did keep such thoughts can easily survive on that path and they behave like normal. They are bound by their thoughts and they work accordingly. On this path, they are living in normal mode. So anybody who want to understand them,can undergoes through several difficulties. A keen observation can defines their attitude and thinking. A man like Mahatma Gandhiji had such type of thoughts. It can only understand by constant observations only. My father was illiterate. Then how he build his strong thoughts ? He learned all things only through experiences through his life. His own life was his guide throughout his life. Today's experience was his guru for tomorrow. Finally experience is the best teacher in the life. He obeyed that path and thus constructed his mind. Faith in good things gradually increased and his life is full of such things.

MY FATHER'S STRUGGLE FOR CANCER AND MEAL #1

Hello friends,
        being as human some great values of life are not for just speech but they are for obey when such circumtances came to us useually we stay away of such situation and thus we miss a chance for prooving ourselves.What we think that this is not my duty and I am not a part of such situation. Why we behave like that? Many reasons are there but some among them are we have a fear of the situation that this situation is not best suited for me. Also we have fear that I can not handle such situation. Society is main reason for which we have fear in our mind. I will discuss about society one day. If our mind is ready to handle the situation our intension toward the situation is demoralise by certain circumtances. This means that we have no faith in self. Making a money is our prior business today but doing that business we lack to follow great values of life, culture and heritage of our ancestors and thus these values are disobeyed by us.

       The main intension to tell this thing is to tell story of my struggle along with my father with cancer.To do or die is situation before me.Beside he is my father, his whole life is spent by him on the path of truth and devotion. Such morals and ethic are main reasons by which I have to think about him. If I not follow him and his path,my morals become useless. If I ran away the situation which is critical , I will be away of great principals of human being which principal might be helpful for me in my coming life. Also obeing him and his path,I have a chance to prove myself on his hard road. I have choose that path and my life entirely changed. Though in that stage of life I had undergo some tough situation but watching that period I am today completely satisfied. In walking on my father's path I am feeling great myself. I have proud to follow my father. My one decision changed my life and my thinking. My mind is rather strong than previous one and I think upon a situation differently which lead me to solve the same in my day- to- day life.